We Could… #sol20

img_0876We Could… #sol20

April 28, 2020

In these crazy days, it’s so simple to look at what is so different about our practice, our daily lives, our students, our relationships with each other, and so many other aspects of our lives’ work, the work that seems we won’t return to for at least six months.  I haven’t really been without that schedule for any appreciable time for more than twenty years and most of twenty prior to that.  So the thought of thirteen weeks of sitting in this basement library clinging to scraps of contact with students and their teachers is soul-crushing.  So I’m just going to have to find another way to look at this situation.

I’ve been talking recently about how we can keep the heart of our work in the body of this new day to day.  What is it that our students responded most to and how can we make the closest proximity to that thing?  It’s difficult to consider the daily subtle moves we made as teachers when our audience is a thirteen inch MacAir laptop screen and the closest thing to a student I have is a seventy-five pound ten year old black lab mix who loves a good story as much as the next person, but doesn’t have much to say about author’s purpose or the story arc.  My new books mostly come from another electronic screen and my read-alouds are pre-recorded, so how do I make it feel like a glorious grand discussion and an intimate shoulder to shoulder conference?

While I don’t have the answer for you,  I think I might be able to steer us toward the shore.  Let’s dream for a few minutes.  When you planned for your mini-lesson or your active engagement, your independent practice, or your gentle conferring,  what did you hope for deep in your heart?  Connections?  You still know those students in front of you.  You know what they like to read, how soon they want to talk to you after you send them off to work.  You know if they need to explain their thinking first or if they need you to draw them a little map to get started.  You know if you stop in a read aloud and ask them to write down something if they can come back to the story or text with you or if it’s better to read it twice and stop the second time.  You know… you really know.

So… how can you make it feel like home for each student?  Can you have a whole group that holds their whole hearts?  Can you put their emotions front and center and still hold on to literacy?  Can you talk to them individually or in the pairs or triads that feel most comfortable to them?  Can you give them space to grieve, and look you in the eyes (how can you make your eyes look right at them?)?  How can we laugh and have crazy FRI-YAY! traditions and lean in for the next bit of Sisters Grimm or Wild Robot or did you see the Willouby’s??  

You have it in you to reach inside and find those things that connect kids to you and each other,  to the learning, and their agency,  to the challenge, and the joy… and the struggle.  You were already amazing at that… and you are still.  Don’t let your sadness rob you and them of what we could make from this mess.  We are accustom to making lemonade, and beautiful mistakes, and restarts.  We are stars at redo’s and We got this!  

So put on the best music in the background and dream of those best days when everything worked like magic in your rooms, when the kids were engaged and happy, productive and challenged.  How can you make that happen in this world?  I know you can.

What are the promises you made in September to your students in your heart?  What are the promises you don’t want to break today?

This can be the most amazing time,  the memory that shows them and us just what we are made of.  I don’t know what your secret sauce is, but I’ll bet anything you have it.  Dig it out and spread it all over these experiences.  Make it magically simple in the way only you can.

 

6 thoughts on “We Could… #sol20

  1. YES! This entire slice is an anthem! You are dead on when you say you might steer us toward the shore! “Don’t let you sadness rob you of what you and them of what we can make of this mess” – now that is one powerful line. We can sit here and be sad and, as I wrote over the weekend, “I don’t know” ourselves to death or we could get right on your ship and move towards the shore – creating, connecting, teaching and learning together in spite of it all! Amen, Susan! GREAT slice!

  2. Susan you have righted the ship with this post. We need to think how we can be ourselves, make those connections and look students in the eye and say I’m here!
    Thank you for these words today!

  3. Hi, Susan. Great cheerleading today – we all need some of that! You are absolutely right. This is no time to feel sad. Our students and colleagues need us. We can figure it out. Loved your two questions to guide us: What are the promises you made in September to your students in your heart? What are the promises you don’t want to break today?

    Thanks for this piece – great encouragement for all of us to give our best efforts to everyting we do!

  4. My principal recently said in a Google meeting: “Teaching won’t look or feel like we’ve known it – we have to get out of the box. And when we return to face-to-face, we need to STAY out of the box.” This is an extraordinary opportunity for creativity and meaningful, deeply connected learning … only if we can simplify and hone in on the heart of it, and, as you said so well, “I’m just going to have to find another way to look at this situation.” -There it is.

  5. I love all the “special sauce” people have been sharing in our Tues/Thurs meetups. Students looking forward to seeing their teacher is what matters most. Kids are resilient — they are looking for what we are going to do next. It is not the same, but I think teachers are figuring out a pretty cool new normal! I love the idea of thinking back to the promises you made in September … a very good place to start!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s